Well, you know…shit.
why would you pay someone for 26-51 weeks for doing nothing
you have a very, very odd definition of “doing nothing”.
Living as a woman in the USA in a nutshell:
- If you don’t have sex, you’re a prude and a bitch.
- If you have sex outside of marriage and use birth control to avoid getting pregnant, you’re a slut (whether you’ve had sex twice every day or twice in a year).
- If you have sex outside of marriage, but don’t use protection and get pregnant, you’re a slut AND you’re stupid
- If you’re single and get an abortion because you can’t afford to take time off work to push a baby the size of a melon out of your cooch, you’re a slut, stupid, AND a murderer.
- If you’re single but don’t get an abortion, but need extra governmental help to assist in raising your child you were pressured to keep because of someone else’s moral code, you’re a slut, stupid, a leech on the back of society, AND shit out of luck.
AND THE HOOOOME OF THEEEEE BRAAAAAVE
And if you’re married and have a baby, apparently raising that child is “doing nothing” and you don’t deserve to be paid maternity leave but if you don’t want to have children with your spouse or can’t have children, you “aren’t doing your duty as a wife”/”aren’t a real woman”
like nah fuck outta here.
You really can’t fucking win with some people
North Korea gives mothers paid leave. North Korea. NORTH KOREA. NORTH KOREA!!!!And America doesn’t!
Im considering it but I don’t know a lot about it, pros and cons? Good ages to stop at? would it be weird since my baby is a boy? Im being serious so please be nice,
My son is 19 months and we still co-bathe! It was harder for me when he was smaller, because he was so…
yeah idk I want to do it but my boyfriend think it sounds kind of dumb and thinks I should just get a baby bathtub but I think I might co bathe
My son FREAKKKKEDDD out in a baby bath, which is complete understandable if you look at it from a baby’s view, lol. But when he’s all cuddled up on your tummy he’ll just relax and enjoy the water, so it’s also less stressful in that way.
yeah that’s true I just wish my boyfriend would kinda support the things I want to do hes been really supportive but recently everything I want sounds dumb to him
Once baby gets here he may realize your ways are easier/better for you and the little guy and hop off!
my son didn’t like cobathing at first. well honestly he didn’t really like anything but now he loves it! he loves taking showers with me :)
I think it all depends on the child honestly. Try every option and Follow their cues :) my daughter hated co bathing for whatever reason, but loves regular baths :)
It’s definitely good to keep your options open. My son is 1 year and he really likes the water. Sometimes we sit him in his tub if it’s a pre-bed bath. Other times my husband likes to shower with him because it’s easy. I’ve taken baths with him before and it’s kind of nerve wracking because the water is so much higher but he liked having more space!
There is now a measles outbreak in New York. A whole ward of cancer patients currently undergoing chemotherapy have been exposed to it. Imagine fighting cancer for years only to die because some jackass didn’t…
I don’t know too much about this stuff but doesn’t that mean the people who caught it weren’t vaccinated either? Pot calling the kettle black if we’re going to blame the kids who didn’t get vaccinated for spreading it but pity the ones who caught it and also aren’t vaccinated…
WHY AM I STUCK AT WORK?!
if someone has a fucking phobia of something don’t be an asshole and play with their fear for your own amusementUNLESS IT’S HOMOPHOBIA. THEN YOU ACT AS NON-STRAIGHT AS YOU CAN AND WATCH THE BLOOD POUR OUT OF THEIR EYES
I was trying to explain homophobia to my high school student from China whose English is so-so. It went like this: “Well a ‘phobia’ is an intense fear of something. Like arachnophobia is a petrifying fear of spiders. And ‘homo’ refers to people who like the same gender. So when we put it together, we get someone with an intense fear of people who are attracted to someone of the same gender. (Pause) But I don’t think it’s really an intense fear; it’s more like an intolerance that’s really stupid in my opinion.”
Yeah she didn’t really get it. And that’s a good thing. Homophobia should not make sense.